Fasting Together1 Corinthians 12:22

The Feeble Ones Are Necessary

This message is for no longer being able to do what the church is doing, and having been quietly reclassified from somebody who serves into somebody who gets looked after

Nobody told her. That is what she keeps coming back to. There was never a conversation.

For thirty-one years she was one of the ones who did things. Not the flowers, that was somebody else. She was the one who went. Somebody had a baby, somebody had a diagnosis, somebody's husband left, and she went, and she was good at it, and she was often the first one there.

And there was a fall, and then a hip, and then eighteen months of a knee that has not resolved and is not going to, and now she does not drive after dark and she cannot manage steps.

And she noticed, sometime last year, that her name had moved.

It is on a different list now. She is on the list that gets a call at Christmas and a visit when somebody has time, and the visits are lovely and the people who come are kind and she is genuinely fond of every one of them.

But nobody ever said: we are moving you across. It happened by itself, the way water finds the low ground, and by the time she noticed it had already happened and there was nothing to object to.

If your name has moved, come and sit down out here. Nobody in this article is going to look after you.

The Feeble Ones Are Necessary

Paul reaches for a stronger word, not a kinder one

Here is a sentence in the middle of Paul's long argument about the body, and it is the one nobody quotes because it does not sound like an encouragement until you look at the word.

Nay, much more those members of the body, which seem to be more feeble, are necessary.1 Corinthians 12:22

Necessary.

Now watch what he does not do. He does not say those members are still loved. He does not say they are still valued, or still part of the family, or still important in their own way, which are the four sentences a church says to somebody it has moved across a list.

He says necessary. Which is a word about function. It means: the thing does not work without this.

And he opens with nay, much more, which is a correction. He is arguing against something. Somebody in Corinth had been ranking the parts, and Paul stops them and says the ranking is not merely unkind, it is factually inverted.

That is a considerably stronger claim than the one anybody has made to her, and it is the one in the book.

You are necessary rather than accommodated, and it was already the stronger word. 1 Corinthians 12:22 is where that sits, in a correction rather than a consolation, and the same Spirit who moved Paul to reach past four kinder words for that one is the one who lets a woman on a porch hear what he actually wrote.

Nobody in that church did anything wrong

Let me be fair to them, because bitterness would cost her more than the list did and she is not a bitter woman.

There was no meeting. Nobody decided. What happened is that a church, like every organization, allocates by capacity, and when a person's capacity changes the allocation follows, and it follows quietly and quickly and without anybody noticing that a whole account of somebody has been rewritten in the process.

And the people who come and visit her are not condescending. They are her friends. Two of them she trained. That is not nothing and she knows it.

The trouble is only that a church can be entirely kind to somebody and still, without meaning to, communicate a complete theory of their worth by which list they are on. And the theory in that arrangement is: you were valuable when you could go, and now we are looking after you, which is love and is also, quietly, a reclassification of a human being into an outcome.

Paul is arguing against exactly that, in that chapter, at length, and he is arguing against it in a church rather than in the abstract.

You have a place that is not a function, and it was never held by what you could do. He promised it, in the sentence about the parts being set in the body by God Himself as it pleased Him (1 Corinthians 12:18), and His Spirit does not reallocate a person when a knee stops working.

The paragraph that outranks the teaching

Before anything else, this outranks everything above it.

Some people must not go without food, and at your age and with what you are managing this is not a footnote. If you live with diabetes, if you are pregnant or nursing, if you take medication, if you have ever had a hard relationship with food or with eating, if you are underweight, unwell, frail or elderly, or if you are simply not sure, speak to your doctor first and let their answer be the answer. There is no length on this page, no kind of fast, no plan and no schedule, and there is not going to be one here.

And nothing on this page makes the group version of anything superior, and nothing here can only be done by somebody who can drive after dark. Every single thing this site asks for can be done from a chair by a window, and that is not a smaller version being offered as a consolation. It is the thing.

Privacy is about audience and never about hiding, too. Telling your doctor is right. Telling your daughter is right. Telling whoever cooks in your house is right and it is basic sense. None of it fails anything.

You are fully inside all of this, and you were never at the edge of it because of your knee. Scripture settled that long before you got here (2 Corinthians 8:12), and the Spirit of God has never once been given out according to what anybody is able for.

If today is heavier than a page can hold, call somebody real: your doctor, a counselor, or a crisis line, and the emergency services if you or anybody near you is in danger tonight.

The breakthrough

So here is the turn, and it does not ask your body for one thing.

You are necessary, and it is already the word in the book, and it was chosen deliberately over four gentler ones. Scripture settled that in a correction Paul aimed at a church that was ranking people (1 Corinthians 12:22), and the Holy Spirit is not the author of a list that has you on the receiving side of it.

And the loss is real. Being the first one there was not just a role, it was most of how you knew yourself for three decades, and that is gone, and nothing on this page is going to tell you it was secretly a gift.

What is not gone is the thing that made you good at it, which never lived in the car.

Declare this over yourself

Say these out loud, in your own voice, from wherever you are sitting. The standing to speak like this is yours in Christ and it is not issued according to what anybody can still manage. Scripture is the ground under it and the Holy Spirit is what makes it living rather than merely willing, and what God does through one phone call, and when, is His, however He answers.

  1. List they moved me onto, you are not the whole account of me. Paul says the parts that seem more feeble are necessary, and he chose that word over four kinder ones on purpose. In the name of Jesus I am reading myself by the word in the book.
  2. Quiet reclassification nobody ever mentioned, you are named and you are not God's arrangement. A church allocates by capacity and it does it without meaning anything by it, and His Spirit is settling that in me this afternoon.
  3. Father, I used to be the first one there and I cannot go any more and I miss it. I thank You that You set the parts in the body Yourself and have never once reallocated a woman because of a knee. Here is the one thing I can still do, and I am doing it this week.

Why we ask you to say these out loud

The word this stands on

1 Corinthians 12:22

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